Does fear keep you from travelling to your dream destination on your own? This post will assist in evaluating your fears (or perceived fears), how to conquer those fears, and have you travelling alone in no time at all.
DOES FEAR KEEP YOU FROM TRAVELLING SOLO?
We are all protected by our little bubble and very seldom do we find the courage to step out of that bubble into the world of the unknown, no matter how strong our desire is to do so. I am here to tell you that bubble can be burst!
“There is nothing to fear but fear itself” – Franklin D. Roosevelt
Over-Coming Fear of Travelling Alone
Now that we have determined that it is likely fear, and fear alone that deters us from travelling solo, follow the recommendations below to help you to burst your bubble, escape your comfort zone and enter the world of solo travel:
F – Find/Determine Your Fears
In order to determine if the fear that you have is “real” or “perceived”, write all of your fears down. This step will help you to put everything into perspective. Review the list and cross off all “perceived” fears, which will then leave you with your “real” fears. It is my guess that there won’t be many, if any, fears left. If you want to escape your comfort zone, it is imperative that you are completely honest with yourself throughout this step.
E – Educate/Evaluate the Destination
Fear is often caused by the unknown. Determine where it is that you would like to travel (hopefully not in a war zone), and then educate yourself and learn as much as you possible can about the area, culture, religion, food, accommodations, etc. Then evaluate the risks, real and perceived, that might be associated with your chosen destination. When evaluating your chosen destination, it is important that your interests also be taken into consideration.
A – Assess the Safety
It is this stage of your solo journey that I believe is the most critical. You will now be armed with everything you need to know about your destination in order to make an educated and informed decision as to the risks involved. If, through your research, you have determined that your chosen destination has too many unknown risk factors, not including “perceived” risk factors, then choose another destination. Keep in mind that when travelling solo you are responsible for your own safety, and a little bit of self-defense knowledge can go a long way.
R – Ready to Go
You now have a wealth of knowledge about your chosen destination and you are finally ready to burst that bubble and join the world of solo travel. Prior to departing on your journey, ensure that all of your arrangements have been finalized, and go with confidence. You won’t regret it.
Are still hesitant to take that first step into the world of solo travel? If I haven’t yet convinced you, then Solo Travel; Escaping Your Comfort Zone and Solo Travel; The Good, Bad and Ugly Truth might help to convince you to take that first step into the world of solo travel.
It is true that I have been travelling solo for over 12 years, but you might be surprised to learn that I continue to follow these 4 steps every time I am planning on getting away. Yes, there are still many times that I’m nervous and hesitant about venturing out on my own, but my desire to travel, see new things, experience new adventures, and meet new people, keeps me going.
“Traveling alone will be the scariest, most liberating, life changing experience of your life. Try it at least once!”
Benefits of Solo Travel
Once you have completed your FEAR evaluation, the bubble has now burst and you are off and running. Well maybe not running, but you’re off! I can’t emphasize the benefits of solo travel enough. I guarantee that once you have travelled solo once, you will have grown to a whole new level. That alone is worth any risks of travelling on your own. Solo travel has so many benefits most of which help you to grow as an individual. They are endless!
- you become more dependent
- you become more extroverted, as you will open up to fellow travellers along the way
- you become more aware of who you are as a person
- you see the world in an entirely different light, with much more appreciation
- your stress level is lower
- you learn to make decisions and solve problems on your own
- it is completely liberating
- you gain a sense of total freedom
- you realize “hey, I can do this”!
You have conquered your FEAR and you are now armed with all of the tools you need to burst out of your bubble and into the world of solo travel. I would love to hear about your solo adventures.
You can do this! It is time to escape your comfort zone, burst that bubble, and step out into the world of solo travel.
“One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn’t do” – Henry Ford
For more tips and tricks on solo travel and adventures, please join me on my travels and learn to travel solo like a pro!
SAFE AND HAPPY TRAVELS 🙂
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