Take Yourself on a Date

Okay, all of you single ladies out there……and not so single ladies.  It’s time to take yourself on a date (sorry fellas)!  🙂 

Make Some Alone Time and Take Yourself on a Date

We as women spend so much time caring for others, whether it be our spouse, kids, grandkids, parents or employers, that it is time to stop playing tug-of-war and start taking care of the most important person.  Ourselves!  We have to start setting time aside for us.  Whether it be a few hours, a day or even a week, set time aside and take yourself on a date. Alone!  

Take yourself for some pampering at the spa

It is so important for us women to take some time out of our busy lives and focus on us. It doesn’t have to cost a fortune (we will keep that for our travels), as long as you carve out some time to spend pampering yourself.  If we don’t take care of ourselves, we sure as heck won’t be any good to anybody else.

“Nurture yourself, and then proceed in taking care of others”

I know that this might be a completely new concept to many of you. I fact, I bet most of you might not even know where to begin.  I am a seasoned pro and I have you covered!

Let off some steam at the gym

Solo Date Ideas

Whether you are single or married and especially if you have children, it is imperative for our mental health that we make some “me” time, and what better way to do that than to take yourself on a date.

The date doesn’t have to cost a lot of money, in fact some of my best “dates” haven’t cost me a dime. The idea is to just get out and do somenthing that YOU enjoy, or if you prefer, you can even take yourself on a date while staying at home.

Need some date inspiration?

Do you need some inspiration for solo date ideas, or you don’t know where to begin? You can start with these simple date ideas but the sky is the limited, just be creative.

  • hike a trail
  • pamper yourself at the spa
  • take a walk in the rain
  • spend the day at the beach
  • go on a picnic
  • cheer at a sporting event
  • take a road trip
  • workout at the gym
  • see a movie
  • grab a coffee and hang out at a book store
  • grab a book from the library
  • go on a bike ride
  • spend the night pampering yourself at home (give yourself a facial, manicure and pedicure
  • take yourself on a date for a nice dinner
  • stop in for a cocktail at the local pub
  • enjoy some rides at an amusement park
  • cook yourself a fancy meal at home
  • explore a quaint little village
  • join a class and learn something new
  • learn a new language
  • take up a new hobby
  • wander the stores and buy yourself something nice
  • sleep in…..no alarms
  • volunteer
  • take yourself for a weekend away
  • travel abroad
Grab your bike and hit the trails

There you have it ladies!  It’s as easy as that!  If I have over-whelmed you with options, a fun thing to do is to write a date on a piece of paper and then put the paper in a jar.  Pick one date out of the jar at least once a month.


Date Yourself. Take Yourself out to eat.

Don’t share your popcorn at the movies with anyone.

Stroll around an art museum.

“Fall in love with canvases

Fall in love with Yourself”

Have pride in oneself and live for oneself, not others

because your life is owned by you not others.

Ultimately it doesn’t matter what you do, as long as you take the time to pamper yourself every once in awhile and take yourself out a date.


Don’t forget to grab your very own cute free Checklist  to check off each time you take yourself on a date.


Kelly xo


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